Neil Patrick Harris Says Heās āForever Gratefulā for Husband David Burtka as They Celebrate 12 Years of Marriage
Neil Patrick Harris Says Heās āForever Gratefulā for Husband David Burtka as They Celebrate 12 Years of Marriage

Ashlyn RobinetteMon, September 7, 2026 at 3:55 PM UTC
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Neil Patrick Harris and David Burtka in August 2026Credit: Cindy Ord/Getty -
Neil Patrick Harris and David Burtka marked their 12th wedding anniversary with heartfelt social media tributes
The pair were married in Italy on Sept. 6, 2014
The couple share 15-year-old twins Harper and Gideon, born via surrogate
Neil Patrick Harris and David Burtka are celebrating 12 years of marriage.
In honor of their 12th wedding anniversary on Sunday, Sept. 6, the How I Met Your Mother star, 53, and his husband, 51, shared heartfelt tributes to each other on social media.
ā12 years ago today,ā Harris wrote on Instagram alongside a photo of the couple tasting their wedding cake during their private wedding in Italy in 2014. Kelly Clarksonās āA Moment Like Thisā played in the background.
He continued, āDavid, thanks for saying āI do.ā Iām forever grateful that you did. @dbelicious ā¤ļø #anniversary ā¤ļø.ā

David Burtka and Neil Patrick Harris in June 2026Credit: AFP/Getty
Burtka marked their marriage milestone in his own Instagram post. ā12 years today I said I do! Wow- 12 years have flown by. I couldnāt be happier with anyone else by my side. I love you @nph,ā Burtka wrote alongside a solo shot of his husband smiling outside.
The pair also shared a fan-made Instagram reel of compiled photos from their long-lasting romance set to Olivia Deanās āSo Easy (To Fall in Love)ā on their Instagram Stories. ā12 years married today!!ā Burtka added onscreen.
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The couple met back in 2004 and later began dating. They kept their relationship under wraps until they made their red carpet debut at the Emmys in 2007. Six years into their relationship, Harris and Burtka announced they were going to be parents and went on to welcome their now 15-year-old fraternal twins, Harper and Gideon, via surrogate in October 2010.
Following the 2011 ruling that legalized gay marriage in New York, the couple announced their engagement, and got married in 2014.
Harris and Burtka said āI doā wearing custom Tom Ford tuxedos. Their close friend and longtime director of How I Met Your Mother, Pam Fryman, officiated the ceremony. Also taking part in the celebration were the coupleās twins, who were 3 at the time. One highlight of the festive evening was a special performance at the reception by Elton John.

David Burtka and Neil Patrick Harris in June 2026Credit: Jamie McCarthy/Getty
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Speaking to Entertainment Tonight in April 2019, Harris revealed that the key to keeping his marriage strong is perseverance.
āI think the secret to a relationship is just perseverance, you know?ā the Gone Girl star said. āItās not always pretty ⦠but heās (David Burtka) pretty, so it makes it easy.ā
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